@Robin107 I've been reading your posts with great interest. I'm wondering, have you changed your email password lately? Emails are hacked / compromised all the time. I change mine every six months just to be on the safe side. Remember, Yahoo had a massive email attack just a few months ago and my LifeLoc security manager has notified me at least once that my email address was found on a website presumably for sale. 😞
Also, do you check your log in history? In order for anyone to access your Airbnb account, they have to log in. You can find this under your profile under Security. If you find a log in from a device / IP address that you don't use, log them out and then change your password. You should receive an alert when you or anyone else logs in from a foreign (to you) device / browser. For example, if I log in to my Airbnb account from a friend's IPad, I will get an alert from Airbnb telling me. Be sure your email settings are not blocking alerts from Airbnb.
Yes, technically I supposed that there is a difference between hacking and compromising an account. Strictly speaking, hacking is done when someone uses computer software to access data illegally such as when Target credit card accounts were accessed. Usually this is done on a massive scale. Compromising an account normally is done on an individual account level and is done by gaining access to a particular account. This can be done easily through public wifi that is not password protected such as in an internet cafe. Someone sitting next to you can see what you are doing on your device and gain information that way. There are other ways as well, such as clicking on an attachment in an email from someone you don't know.
I wish you the best of luck and I'm very sorry you are going through this traumatic ordeal!