@Serena335that is so sweet for someone to do for their partner.
There's nothing worse than the cat been let out of the bag for any party in any situation.
Have they provided the partners full name so you can try establish background details?
Sometimes we need to give people the benefit of the doubt & let people get on with living their own lives in Quiet Enjoyment.
Life is short & precious enough as it is and many are struggling now with unsolicited Mental well being issues bc of the Scaremongering that should not be happening.
We all die of something.
Live, Love & Laugh again.