@Dorothy122 I don't think anyone here is personally offended, "stird up" (is that what the kids say these days?), or harboring any hatred toward you. Quite the contrary - you're a good host and we all want you to prosper!
But it does seem to me that you're more than capable of understanding why your hypothesis doesn't follow logically or have any basis in facts, when you look back at what you wrote. Could it be that your projections seemed to make sense in the heat of anger at a bad review, but didn't really pass muster when you had a chance to calm down and take a broader perspective?