@Scott46 Oh great, another guest-centric feature. Well, only 4 reviews show without clicking on Read all 76 reviews, and I think most guests are likely to read more than 4 reviews if there are more to be read, and her review will disappear off that initial 4 once you get a few more reviews, but it is nasty that they would put that one there without your response.
On your profile page, it shows as it should, without clicking on anything.
In the future, don't let guests enter the property at all if they haven't already accepted the extra guest fees.
Sorry you had such a stinker.