@Laura2592
Yes the same has happened to me when i was very new.
I really resented being sent the message "we're sorry to let you know that XXXX has cancellled" because naturally I thought that xxx HAD cancelled - I had no clue it was a payment issue. Similar to you I got a very VERY hostile phone call from the guest - as the booking was for a public holiday weekend it was rebooked almost instantly and she wanted me to cancel the new booking and honour hers as it was :not her fault". ( she DID get messages from airbnb saying she didn't have sufficient funds, but she ignored them, because in fact she did have sufficent funds - so still a airbnb stuff up, but a different version).
I had a hell of a day that day actually - abusive phone call from the first guest - I told her if the new booking cancelled for whatever reason I would get back to her immediately. Then a phone call from CS asking me "what I could do to make things right for XXX" as though the problem were someone all MY fault, not theirs. Then I coped a string of abuse from the new guest because I pointed out what was already stated in my listing and the house rules- no pets inside. Vitriolic messages and spleen and he cancelled and reported me apparently ( and he had and continues to have stunning reviews and 5 stars). Rang back the first guest, she swore at me and hung up in my ear. I blocked the dates and very nearly took the listing down.
WHY they can't send an automated message that is accurate "we're sorry to let you know we've had to cancel xxx's booking" eludes me.
The whole automated thing is utterly broken from what I can see.
Once - just once in 18 months - I sent a request for money that a guest accepted. I was not paid but I kept getting messages being assured it was being followed up by CS. It wasn't. When I finally rang, I was told it was really MY fault it wasn't followed up - I should have let them know to follow it up. For a variety of reasons, I told them to cancel the request. They let the guest know. I got an email stating the case was closed. 7 weeks later I get an alert saying they have collected the money from XXX. I get a very hostile phone call from the guest. He wants his money back. airbnb have taken it but I haven't got it yet. He rings them, he's assured its all a mistake, it will be cancelled. I wake up this morning to another message saying i'll have the money soon. More hours on the phone. For nothing.
The incompetence is truly staggering