@Veronica844 I understand your anxiety - you have responded to an inquiry, and yet you still get those reminders to accept, decline, pre-approve, or set a wedding date. It's annoying!
One aspect of being an Airbnb host is growing a thick skin and ignoring things like that. The list of things to ignore is quite long - like pricing suggestions, and suggestions to make your cancellation policy more flexible, and suggestions to allow one-night stays AND long-term stays - and quite tiresome. But it's the only way to stay sane.
You can also repeatedly "send feedback" just to have the satisfaction of driving them as crazy as they're driving us...