@Kris2875
We're too new at hosting on Airbnb for me to offer any useful advice, but I can certainly commiserate. Our house is in the Berkshires, and seasonal rentals are normal there, for summer and ski season. Today we accepted a reservation for January and February after exchanging messages with the prospective guest. He had no reviews, which makes us uncomfortable, but he and his wife and three children are planning to use the house mostly on weekends, with the occasional long weekend or holiday week, and they won't be living there full time. He seemed all right in his written messages and we decided to take a chance. But once we confirmed and were able to see his profile picture, we saw a very cute picture of his three children and a dog. We have a firm no-pets policy. We wrote back to him right away to make sure he had been aware of this policy before he booked, but haven't heard back from him yet with an assurance that he won't be bringing a pet. Because he hasn't replied to us, now we feel even more uncomfortable renting to him because not only might he bring the dog in spite of the rules, but also he might be difficult to communicate with once he's in the house. We'd like to cancel his reservation, which is three months from now and gives him plenty of notice, but then January and February will be blocked by Airbnb and we won't be able to rent those months at all. It seems quite unfair that we have so little control and flexibility over who stays in our home, in which we've invested so much time and money. Hosts should have a limited window of time to change their mind, if they find out new information after the fact that indicates the guest will be incompatible.
All this was to say that I definitely agree with you!
Nancy