Hi, @Clare0, @Trevor26, @Amber-and-Mike0, @Peter445, @Mauricio---Andy0... yes, this is a super-hot topic for AirBnB, and we all understand why--even if it's ultimately unrealistic... they are trying.
It's unrealistic for a lot of reasons. We ALL judge, every day. And there are good reasons:
* If someone looks like a Grizzly Bear, IS IT? This is in our DNA because those data sets are built in to keep us alive. On Halloween, I would perhaps discount the appearance, but would still really like to see the guy. (Oh, and it WOULD be a guy, right?)
* This is my favorite: I want all evil people to have a hunched back, a significantly disfigured body part, and prefer a leg that drags. THEN I WOULD KNOW! Truth is that one of my closest life friends got polio when he was a kid and totally fits this bill. He is also a Rabbi and one of the kindest souls on this planet.
* It is absolutely impossible to eliminate bias, and we are inviting unknown people into our homes. There is RISK. And we, as hosts, can not put up a picture of some photoshopped Disney animal, right? We ALL have to be verified. Needs to go both ways. (Truth & Safety?)
Does 'what you look like' mean anything about who you are? Most likely not, but if something is really tipping your scales, YOU need to be able to say that you are not comfortable and PASS.
A badger in sunglasses? No.
Best to all. Great conversation.
Kim