@Farah1 Maybe I'm just tired or have too much on my plate, but I am starting to get a bit fed up with guests breaking rules and therefore a bit sterner with them when they do.
This week I had another set of guests who were being tricky with the check in time. They asked to check in at 10 am and I said that wasn't possible as I had other guests directly before and that I couldn't do earlier than 3pm, sent them left luggage info etc. They said fine, they'll come at 3. Then they changed their minds and said between 7 and 9 pm. I asked them if they could be more specific (it was Saturday night and I needed to know if I could accept a dinner inviation). They replied that the time they arrived would depend on how they were feeling on that evening. So, I had to cancel my plans. Fine, but then they sent a text at 6 pm saying they were coming now. There seemed to be no regard that, by repeatedly changing their check in time, they were messing up my whole schedule. I simply told them not to come before 7pm as agreed as I had planned my whole day around that time.
The thing that annoyed me more was that twice already this week I have had guests break my house rule re not giving out my address for mail. One asked me if it was okay, but only after she had already given it out to credit card companies - the worst mail spammers out there! The second one didn't even ask. Mail arrived for her and she hasn't even checked in. When I messaged her about it, she apologised but said she didn't give the address for postage, only for payment details! Am I overreacting here? I definitely do not think it is okay for a guest to be giving my home address as her billing address!!
I hate getting off to a bad start with guests, but I feel like I have to say something, otherwise they'll just break one rule after another.
Although I already ask them to confirm they agree to all the rules before I accept a booking, I'm going to message them again before arrival asking them to re-read the rules as they seem to forget half of them. Also, I'm definitely going to start including some points about this stuff in private feedback. Still in a dilemna about what to mention in the public reviews though as I don't want to seem harsh.
Does "appeared to have some issues with agreeing to a check in time" or "found it hard to stick to an agreed check in time" added to the end of an otherwise positive review sound reasonable?