Hi again @Christine615
I have rulea about food in the beds, a no brainer. I have a dozen sets of bedding and towels, extra pillows, comforters, etc. Mattresses and pillows have waterproof covers under the slips. I buy only highest quality, it is cheaper in the long run. We do not use any rugs at all. They are a liability for me and I believe that there is nothing nicer than our hardwood floors. We bought a commercial washer - yes! you are so right about how convenient it is to be able to do large things and large loads.
Also, I prefer guests that stay no longer than a week, and cannot imagine having a long term guest - that would be a tenant.
I provide food, yes. Breakfast breads, fruit, granola, milk, almond and soy milk, yogurt. Many coffees and teas, hot chocolate. Coffeemaker, French press, water heating pot, teapot. I also have a well stocked bathroom. I get what you mean about shopping - however we are a half hour down the mountain to the highway and a bit more to get to a grocer.
Our guests do not come here to fun around and go places for the most part. They come here to peacefully relax and totally get away. They are responsible for their own dinners and at times it becomes a group thing with us, which is a lovely bonding thing with exceptional guests. We tend to have a lot in common with our guests, and we offer fun optional things included in their stay, like sky shows, hikes, nature study, and full concierge service. We've even taken guests to the theatre for a play or a concert. This is not work, it is one of the most fun things we do.