@Kelly177 - Since you're new around here and have not become acclimated to these forums, my suggestion is that you turn off notifications and use the Community Profile section to see exactly when someone has responded to just you. They will use the @Kelly177 function. There are going to be many, many times where people start chatting about something that has no relevance to you and almost all of the users here use that service to help draw attention to direct responses to various individuals. That's a common practice, but not used 100% of the time, but it's common.
Since this is a COMMUNITY, people are going to start chatting with one another from time to time. There is no "chat room" here, just these threads - and we're glad to have them because they are less than 2 years old. If you choose to keep coming to the forums to post and learn, if you still think that all side-line conversations should be dismissed, you might like to create a tutorial for proper thread etiquette to help guide the group. Until that time, you are sort of bound to the current standards and accepted practices in place here.
I sincerely wish you much luck and plenty of success. If you want to keep coming back to learn and grow as a host, and making no assumptions that you haven't already done or in the process of doing so, I'd encourage you to:
1. Complete the tutorials here: https://www.airbnb-toolkits.com/my_toolkits
2. Read all the big topics here: https://www.airbnb.com/help
4. Bookmark this: https://community.airbnb.com/t5/Community-Help/Contact-Airbnb-A-Community-Help-Guide/m-p/16165#M2339...
5. Then take a mental inventory of your own personality and determine if you actually can handle people in your space, touching and ruining your things without being sorry (because it will happen) and how you will resolve conflict as it arises in your dealings with guests. It's different dealing with "guest-pectations" and people on vacation than it is with renters. Being an "on site" host means that guests will sometimes act in ways that displease you. If you will be driven nuts by this, you may decide that hosting is not for you.
Good luck to you.