@Polina65 The cleaning fee normally represents what is paid to the cleaner. The service fee has nothing to do with the host, that's Airbnb's fee. And I don't think that a host has a choice about a resort fee, if the rental is located in a place that charges that. It's a charge set by the resort to use their facilities, not something the host makes a profit on.
While I think some hosts expect too much in the way of clean-up by guests, I don't understand why taking out the garbage is some big deal. Unless a guest has left garbage strewn all over that needs to be gathered up, if the guest is clean and has been putting garbage in the trash, what does it take, 3 minutes to take it out to the bin ?
It's usually requested not as some time saver for the cleaner, but because if there is smelly stuff in the garbage, like fish or used diapers, etc, it can really stink up the unit if the cleaners aren't scheduled to go in right away after check-out. And with the Covid cleaning protocols, a lot of hosts want to leave several hours, if not a day, between bookings, so the cleaner or host isn't subjected to breathing the indoor air right after a guest has checked out, until it has time to settle.
Hotels also charge for cleaning, you know. You just don't see it as a separate line item, it's included in the room fee. But the hotel owner certainly doesn't pay the cleaners out of their own pocket. Hotels can charge less for cleaning because their cleaners are on staff, they are there all day every day. They also tend to pay minimum wage. A cleaner for an Airbnb has to be somewhat flexible as to scheduling, as the length of bookings varies. Also most hosts try to pay their cleaner well, not just minimum wage. And as you note, Airbnbs are usually cleaned to a higher standard than hotel rooms.
Unless you know the going rate for a good cleaner in an area where you book, and how long on average it takes to thoroughly clean and sterilize an Airbnb you stay at, I'm not sure how the cleaning fee can be judged to be "too expensive" or assume that the host must be making a profit on it. Of course, you always have a choice to book something with a lower cleeaning fee or one where it is incorporated into the nightly rate.