I've just had a bit of a bewildering hosting experience.
I had an Instant Book from a Korean guest for two weeks. I must admit that this was a mistake - I normally have IB set for those who have had a postive review and so used Airbnb before, but I think this accidentally got changed in my phone app. So she made an IB, no info , no message. I sent her a message asking her to please tell me a bit about hereself, her plans and to make sure she has read all the description, rules etc and let me know if she has any questions. Her English was barely there, and she asked questions that were clearly already answered in the info, so I already had a bad feeling as it was obvious she hadn't really understood much.
On arrival she was painfully shy but we tried to settle her in and demonstrate as much as we could all the key things she'd need to know around the flat. During the first week it was very hard to touch base with her as I'm pretty sure she actively avoided crossing paths (darting in and out of her room and shutting the door immediately as soon as we've gone into our room etc). From past experience I think it's a mix of it being a cultural thing and shy about interacting with us. The tiny bit of conversation I managed to get with her she seemed happy enough but said she found London to be a bit of a culture shock.
She had left the front door open so knocked on the door one evening and had a polite word with her about it. She nodded and went back in. Then it happened again the next day! So I sent a message via Airbnb explaining that maybe she could translate the text and to please let me know if she doesn't understand or needs help. She replied saying she understood and it was better for her to see the message in text if we needed to talk to her.
However, she then left the door open again another 4 times! My husband and I were at our wits end (what is there to not understand about closing the front door?) , we tried notes, diagrams, showing her . All the time doing our best to keep calm and polite but clear and firm as I didn't want everytime we spoke to her to be having a go about something .
So a week goes by and yesterday she left the front door open again! My husband spoke to her again showing her the door and stressed how important it is. I wasn't back until late so sent her a message asking her to at all times close the door behind her, stressed that it is a security issue and if it happens again we'll need to discuss what happens next at it puts everyone's belongings including hers at risk. She replied being very apologetic and she understood how important it was but thought she had been closing the door, and I finished with that it's a very easy issue to solve - she just needs check the door is fully closed behind her (it's not a tricky door), and I'll chat to her in the morning to check she's ok.
Then this morning whilst I was in the shower I heard her go out (actually closing the door this time), but came down to find she had checked out and left a note saying "I've gone to Paris, thank you!"
So I suppose it's done and dusted, but I am left feeling a bit bewildered. I'd hate to think she basically did a runner because she felt so uncomfortable with us.
I'm also wondering how to leave a tactful review!