@Mimi20
Ruth, what I am going to say to you is not trying to be unkind. It is to try and be constructive....can you please read it and take it that way?
Your listing is showing up and I can assure you, you are not being deliberately penalised by Airbnb, but I am afraid your history is working against you here!
You have copped a couple of bad reviews which you have not handled well!
Ruth, you must emphasise your strengths and minimise your weaknesses, and I am afraid you are doing the opposite!
You have a great bunch of reviews that you have almost totally ignored when it comes to a public response! But you have got stuck into guests who you have had an issue with. There is even one guest who gave you a good review (Betty Jan 2017) and you climbed into her saying you docked here couple of stars because she left some dishes behind....really, Ruth, this will not gain you any respect!
Prospective future guests are going to read these and think that you are a pedantic, prickly host.....and not one to be dealt with.
You also have a recent host cancellation....I know, sometimes these things are unavoidable but, when that posting appears you have the opportunity to post a response as to why you had to cancel and this Ruth can limit the damage that a host cancellation is seen to do to future bookings.
Ruth, I am active on few information sites and I can tell you, one of the most frequently asked Airbnb questions is...."How can I be sure my Airbnb booking is safe"!
Guests are scared they are going to make all these plans and the host will cancel, or turn out to be a Frankenstien monster!
You must not give any hint on your profile that you find guests 'difficult'....and if you do simply turn the other cheek, thank them for their feedback and assure them that you take all comments on board. Be seen as a diplomatic conciliatory host....the sort we would all like to stay with. If they break your house rules, sure mention it, you do need to warn others, but don't launch into a 500 word tyraid because the toilet may not have been left as clean as you would like it or there was a dish or two not cleaned and put away!
When someone gives you a good review, respond, and make a nice statement relating to the stay. let prospective guests know that both you and your guests have nice experiences and make your listing not just visually attractive but personally attractive too.
As far as your visibility thing is going at the moment, get a bit of activity happening on your page. Try and get those terrible antagonistic responses of yours removed, refresh your pictures....maybe a bit less clutter! Guests don't want to all the time worry they are going to trip over kids toys or something or other if they are not all the time vigilant.
Change a house rule around, move your price up one day by a dollar and then next day move it down again. Get a few friends to send you a question via the cotact host tab...get some activity happening on your site. The algorithm that governs search placement responds to...'activity', and the more things you can make happen on your page the higher you will show in search placement.
Mimi, in short, reading your reviews, I would not want to book with you! I would be frightened I might do the wrong thing....you are not thanking people who like you but, you sure are caning those who you feel do not fit your mold!
Success breeds success but, failure tends to breed failure....look to your successes and brush the failures aside, and the booking will start coming back again....believe me Ruth!
I hope you can see this as constructive.
Cheers......Rob