@Miki5
I know you were shaken by this experience, so would I be. It is terrible to consider that we are part of a "family" through Airbnb, and we have been "hacked" by thieves. Realistically, we should know that there is a hacker for everything. Some would be innocently having fun - because it is there, and a challenge - and others are malicious.
I have not used Instant Book, and do not plan to. I want to get an intuitive feel for a prospective guest from how they appear in their photo. I also do a search online for them, check out how they present themselves on Facebook and who they are on LinkedIn. I don't care what color they are, who they sleep with, how they worship, or where they are from. I am interested in who they are as people. I hold high standards of integrity for myself and expect that of others I welcome into my home.
I have changed my settings, thanks to you, to not receive reservation requests for the same day. I did have that same day setting primarily because as resort managers in the past, we had some really outstanding guests "off the road." Now I have done some rethinking on that, and perhaps that is not such a good idea.
We all have photos of our home and amenities, descriptions of our places for the public to browse and information about ourselves. This does leave us wide open for thieves and opportunists. I believe that if I had to use instant book I would de-list my home. Other than the violation and harm done by thieves, I could rationalize that it is "just stuff" that could be replaced, and covered by insurance. The insidious part of it is that trust has been violated, and boundaries. It makes us feel vulnerable in our own space. That is not what we signed up for.
Thanks for bringing this to the front page of discussion here. It is a wake up call for us all. Again, my empathy for your situation. I hope that the authorities will be able to catch and prosecute the individuals involved.
Kitty