@Susan222 You say that you're "very aware what this forum is for", but you're clearly not all that aware. There are SEVERAL forums for complaints, questions, advice, etc. This particular forum (newly created) is specifically for constructive and specific suggestions to AirBnB for changes in policies, coding, interface, etc. In other words, nothing to do with your complaint.
If you need to contact AirBnB to work something out, there are MANY accurate, helpful resources to accomplish that if you'd bothered to look for them. (No thanks to AirBnB, but thanks to many helpful hosts.) I suggest you start here: Contact Airbnb
Or here:
AirBnB Phone numbers
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