@Sue59 you get all different types of situations. Maybe the person is meeting someone to hang out but their own place is not suitable to do so. A romatic get together?? Maybe he has business in town and will be meeting several people at your place during the day?? Many different things can be happening. Ideally just ask alot of questions. Say things like, just out of interest, why are you wanting to book the place so close to your own? You have a right to clarify everything with people before you let them into your own space. When it comes to verifications, many do not like entering alot of personal information into corporate databases. Not because they are suspicious... And to give you a bit of peace, Airbnb automatically puts Hey, I´m XXXX into most peoples profile.
You can always go back to the customer and ask questions and once satisfied, you can ask them to put the request back in and that you would accept it..
You have alot of control.