@Lars23....How very eloquently spoken Lars....and I am sure there are many (if not most) hosts who would agree entirely with the sentiments you have expressed regarding Airbnb.
It is a fact of life, as companies grow they do become less personal, caring and less prepared to help and stand by those who support them. We have all seen Airbnb evolve into the 'monster' that it is today, and although we still receive soothing, caring words from those who started the company, the reality is this company has grown at a far faster rate than it's ability to sustain itself. It simply does not employ enough competent personnel keep the platform upright!
We are seeing situations where prospective guests are seeing different calendar settings to those the host sees on his own listing page.
We are seeing situations where a guest will invent a complaint and have their entire outlay for a stay refunded and the host not only losing that income but being penalised in future hostings without any recourse!
We are seeing situations where a confirmed guest booking is accidentally cancelled by Airbnb and the host is then blamed for the cancellation and penalised.
Lars, hosting is a hard gig, every guest has the capacity to make us wish we had never decided to host and, in many instances we don't get the back-up from the company we deserve.
On the other side of the coin my experience with Airbnb has been wonderful! I have met and had the priviledge to host some wonderful people. Guest payments have always arrived in my account exactly when they should. My communication with guests has been seemless and comprehensive. If I have had an issue the help section have attended to my probem quickly and couteously, I cannot fault Airbnb!
But Lars, I know the rules and I keep up to date with rule changes.....I don't give problems a chance to appear and ruin the love affair I have going with Airbnb!
I gather from your post you are smarting, and have decided to write because of a host cancellation which has recently been posted on your reviews. Lars, please don't think I am being unkind or criticizing you but, if you had understood the implications of cancelling a booking you would never have done it. Sure, it is sneeky of Airbnb but the golden rule for hosts is, you never cancel or accept Airbnb's request to cancel a guest reservation. If a hosting is not possible you get Abb to relocate the guest or work with the guest to find an alternative to any cancellation.
The other thing I notice in your reviews Lars, sooner or later in hosting you are going to get that 'prickly' guest who will give you grief, but don't get into a verbal 'arm wrestle' with them in the reviews, stay aloof and thank them for their comments, explain that certain things are beyond your control but assure them their criticisms will be acted on. You will retain your dignity and in no time their tarnishing review will slip down the page and off the radar. The only thing that would still draw attention to it would be a stinging response on your part!
Lars, thank you for your post, you will have a lot of support for what you have said. Maybe this is not a platform to be totally happy with but, if you understand the way it works it is not necessarilly one to be ashamed of either.
I have involement with three different hosting sites and Lars, I can tell you, this one is the best!!
Cheers.....Rob