@Susie12
I don't have a different solution but am joining to keep informed when you report your experience in case you relist.
There have been countless hosts reporting the same issue you have through this unfair secret experiment by Airbnb.
And a number of hosts taking time out to lend a helping hand explaining what's up.
If you do find a workable solution, please do inform in this thread, so that we at least know and can pass it on in future.
Thank you and good luck!
I thought the idea of de-listing and starting from scratch a great one if it helps. Admittedly a nuisance with the extra work,
but the lesser of 2 evils when comparing to the Instant Book feature that isn't at all suited for the home situation of many hosts.