@Sheena13
Hi Sheena, it's not the dogs that are the problem, it's the owners! Each day I see a guy about 35 walk his Dalmation dog around our local high school grounds. He just stands there and watches his dog deposit the remains of breakfast on the grass and then moves on. I said to him once..."Are you just going to leave that there for kids to tread in"?......He looked at me and said Yep and moved on!
We do have a dog, an Aussie Shepherd and we do have a crate, a large crate so I guess you could say we are well set up for guests with dogs but, on balance it is not worth the damage that travelling dogs will do, to host them.
I 'was' quite happy to have pets in our quite large secure rear garden. If you look at my listing you will see what I mean by 'garden'!
I had this request, and the woman said, 'can I bring our two dogs'! I thought about it for a while, one dog, sure, two, not so sure, what if they ganged up on our 'Betts'! In the end I asked her what sort of dogs they were and she simply said they were about the same size as our Betts. I accepted their request and when they arrived....bloody hell these two dogs were the size of road working machinery....and they did about the same amount of damage. They were Berniese Mountain dogs, each weighing at least 70 Kgs. By the time the guest left next morning, our garden was destroyed, hundreds of dollars and many many hours of work just gone. And all this guest said was..."I hope the dogs were not too much of a nuisance"?
After that I thought, that's it, I don't care what it is, it's not welcome. Sheena, guests are coming into our environment and they need to respect that, but unfortunately pet owners do not! They let their dogs sleep on their beds with them! They let their cats rake their claws across every bit of fabric they can find, tearing it to resemble the remains of a 'wind sock'!
I have said this in another post but you can't blame dogs for being dogs but you sure can blame the owners.......They will just sit there and begninely smile while their little treasure deposit a t*rd the size of a Fosters beer can in the middle of what was your herb garden!! They will watch while that faithfull hound will roll all over your violet patch because it's nice and soft. They will just fleetingly excuse themselves when Bonzo vommits a belly full on our carpet with a dismissive remark like...."Oh, it must have been something he ate in your garden".....
"YES I KNOW IT WAS....It was my bloody flowers"!!!!
Sorry Sheena, it's no good expecting that people will be responsible with their pets, it doesn't matter how you spell it out in your house rules, they won't! As much as I love pets and would not live without one in my life, I host people and I do that to the best of my ability.....I don't host pets!!
Cheers.....Rob