I know this thread is old, but I've been having the same exact problem! It's so frustrating. I've called AirBnB many times and have been getting no-help responses from its Twitter. I'm not sure if there's anything I'm doing wrong, but AirBnB also told me that it's a glitch within my account and that making a whole new listing would't help.
After a few weeks of silence, I've finally gotten frustrated enough to just make a whole new account entirely, losing all the reviews I had on the last account. I just made the new listing on the new account, but it seems like the problem is still happening. If anyone can please help me or direct me to some kind of solution, I'd really appreciate it.