@Linda108
You are right again Linda....It's no good talking to someone, the words are simply lost.....you just need to put down on paper where you can come back to it and read it again. And every time you do it feels a bit better, you get a little bit more of it out of your system.
Rotten luck @Mya4, unfortunately in most instances you can't see guests like this coming, all of a sudden they become your jailer, and you do feel like a prisoner in your own property. I do, and their in a cottage out in the back yard where I don't have to have any interaction with them. But it is different, there are all these constraints on you....there are parts of your property you can't just walk into! I can't just go out in the rear garden and drop a f*rt when I feel like it! I never know who might hear!!
Try to put it behind you....you may possibly never strike another one like her in your hosting career, you have a heap of great reviews behind you, your guests love you....if she is out of step with the world, that's her problem, she has to wake up in the morning and deal with it, you don't!
Move on Mya!
Cheers.....Rob