@Harriet103 I am not aware that there is any setting, toggle or option checkbox to opt out of tax collection for anyone whose State, County or municipality has entered into a collection contract with AirBnB.
I keep a spreadsheet of all my bookings. Tax columns for direct bookings are noted separately from the OTAs that (purportedly) pay my taxes. On the tax reports that I have to file monthly, quarterly and annually, I report the gross earnings from all bookings, the taxes that I have taken directly and then in the prepayment or credit line I enter the taxes that AirBnB collected. Fairly straightforward.
Do your filing forms have a line for prepaid (by AirBnB) or a tax credit?