I sympathise with your frustration, but no need to get upset and explain yourself to others here who seem to be happy with how airbnb operates. Airbnb is also not for me.
There are plenty of other venues out there. Airbnb has gotten a little too big for their britches and it is about making money as well as the effects of supply and demand. Pretty typical of companies like this. They push the envelope to see how much they can make. I don't blame them. It is their business model. We don't have to like it as well, but it does not bother me. I just quit using them, unless I am desparate....which is really never 🙂
I have a couple of houses that I rent and looked at adding those to airbnb. The fees and contract were quite laughable. Airbnb gets their cake, but is not responsible for anything. This is not for me. I'd much rather use my local realtor. They are more accountable and governed by thier localies if things go south. I can also reach them on the phone quickly and know they are an interested party and nearby the properties.
Like I said, there are plenty of other venues, especially if you are in an area that is popular.
On the flip side; As a rentor, I have come across a few flakes that rent their homes on airbnb. They cancelled at the last minute and gave some **bleep** and bull story to why. This has happened more than once. I also ended up in shady neighborhood once, which local crackheads walked by all night long. I can't blame airbnb for that. Safety is not built into their model, nor is it their responsibility (to some extent).
My girlfriend and I used airbnb quite frequently, as rentors, until they jacked their rates. This in turn made owners add in fees so they could recoup. I totally understand this. Does not mean I have to like it as a consumer. It also means I don't have to use the service. A quick google search shows this has continued to frustrate all whom are renting their homes and the rentors. Airbnb is no longer my go to site when I travel. I actually just scour other sites, call local realtors, or make online friends in the areas I visit to get phone numbers for me. Social media has become a better avenue.
The irony is pretty comical to me coming from a company that started as a cheap place to rent an air matress on the floor. They have become what they were against.
Good luck to all.