You see, @Fred13, this is a prime example of why you lost Superhost status in the first place- some misguided notion that it's supposed to be romantic, sexy or in any way fun, when, in fact, it is actually designed to put you on edge, make you lie awake at night obsessing about how many more matching coffee mugs is the "right" amount, and so on.
That you supposedly made the grade this time is obviously indicative of yet another system bug, which may be resolved, so I wouldn't get too comfy with being a part of the club just yet, if I were you.
In order to affect a lasting attitude change, I suggest the following exercise-
(Note: You may want to snooze your listing while doing this, as it can take some time)
*Formulate a logical question, the answer to which would be valuable information for all hosts.
*Go into the Help search engine on the website, and type in your question.
*Search fruitlessly for an answer, going back and typing in various key words. Plan to spend several hours on this before giving up.
*Post the question on this forum, only to find out that no other hosts have been able to get a meaningful answer to that question either.
*Phone airbnb Superhost line. While holding, repeat Marzena's Mantra "It's hard out there for a host". You can alternate this with "No rest for the weary" or "Never decline, never cancel". Do not under any circumstances fall asleep.
*When you finally get disconnected after holding for 45 minutes, use the call-back option.
*You can use this wait time for a call-back productively by going and replenishing the cell or
data time you've just used up, and then re-establishing contact with those potential guests
you've declined in the past, letting them know that your comfort level with their demand that you boat over and pick them up at 3AM, or their child molestation conviction, is no longer an issue, now that you are intent on maintaining your Superhost status.
*Since by the time you've attended to all this, you still won't have received that call-back, you can now start a list of all the ways you can revamp the Island in such a way that you no longer get dinged for location (it may be as simple as building that long-postponed bridge to the mainland).
Once you've done all this, you can sit down and have yourself a cup of that tea that airbnb likes to tease us with, knowing you have some tools under your belt to maintain the proper Superhost attitude. Remember- there's nothing romantic about it.