@Gill1025
If you have chosen identity verification as a requirement, that means you have Instant Booking turned on. It's only with IB that you can have this requirement, which is why the guest was able to book your listing without you accepting her first. Then again, she shouldn't have been able to book if her ID wasn't verified, so I find that a bit concerning. Are you sure she didn't book before you turned on that requirement?
Anyway, if you want to always have the option to accept or decline, which it sounds like you do, turn off Instant Booking in your settings. Just be aware that this could affect your position in the search results as listings with IB get a bit of a boost. This might not be an issue in your area. It depends entirely on the competition.
Also, just so you know, the way it works when more than guest wants to book:
- A guest sends an enquiry. You can either just reply, but that is not a booking. You can also send a special offer and you can send a pre-approval, which allows the guest to go ahead and book.
- A booking request is the one you have to accept or decline within 24 hours. In the meantime, it will show on your calendar, and you will not be able to offer the room to any other guests who enquire unless you decline the request. The system prioritises booking request over enquiries.
- Instant Book trumps all. The system will give guests who book this way priority. Once they do, the booking is made and no one else can book those dates unless you or the guest cancels.