Hello Carlo,
I just had the same trouble except that I am a host living in Europe and I just had some guests (mother and daughter) **. I am replacing my husband who is the usual host and forgot to mention that showers shouldn't exceed 10 minutes per person because the watertank was big nevertheless limited and should provide to everyone in the house. It is normally sufficient for 4 to 6 people as long as they have reasonable water use.
When I went back to my guest and asked if everything was all right with the bedroom and kitchen (oh and i forgot to mention that we offer a beautiful place in an old renovated house for the cheapest price of the town basically, especially with the great commodities we offer) she complained that there was no hot water when she wanted to TAKE A BATH !! Yes indeed, most bathrooms in Europe are still equipped with a bath tub AND a shower ! Especially when you haven't redone your bathroom and discarded the bath tub !! But it does not mean that guests are supposed to have a bath ! I was flabbergasted by such an admission of self centeredness !!
And when she said there was not hot water, I first thought of a problem with the water tank which like you Carlo I went to check if the water pressure and temperature was allright. It all seemed fine. Then I proceded to ask them if her mom who had had a shower before her had had some home water in order to understand the problem.
She said that her mom had had a little bit of hot water and then cold water !
The next day they are gone, and the water tank works perfectly ! Which means that the mother managed to empty a 150 or 200 L water tank and they called it "a little bit of hot water, then no more".
I managed to tell them this was due to excessive showering (with nicer and more polite terms) and they just said like thank you for addressing the problem (not sorry for using all the water).
My husband has a way to put it very nicely and put people at ease but let them understand that there is limited hot water. He says something that goes along : blah blah blah (nice and polite and friendly) "and we would like to know if you intend to shower tonight ? because in this case we will shower tomorrow morning, it does not bother us AT ALL but there is limited hot water since the water tank is for EVERYONE in the house". I thought it was better to ask very nicely not to exceed 10 minutes per person and not to use the bath tub (water is extremely expensive right now in Europe as well !!!!!! like it is every where in the world I believe ?) and to explain briefly why.
I also added it in the House Rules and put it nicely.
At first I thought we should add a second water tank but if we do that, I think it would encourage guests to take long long showers and I don't think it would be great for the environment (and our water bill !!) Of course, we are proud of our house, want to provide the best comfort, accomodate our guests and help them with their needs, but eventhough I would never say that to a guest, we are indeed not a hotel, clearly not at hotel rates and therefore ressources are limited as it is in anybody's house.
I think it is better to keep it that way and to ask in a friendly way that each guest be responsible than to entice them to take long showers. And I mean, there is plenty more ways of relaxing in our area as there is in yours than emptying the hosts water tank 😄
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