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I am quite beside myself with disgust and disappointment that Airbnb would enter the fray of political turmoil by supporting an organization who's stated mission is not only a lie but as they demonstrate daily, the protests and ensuing riots one has to know that it's not about racial equality. I will get into a long diatribe here but I'll just say that every time I see BLM box on the website with a donate button, I have to wonder if anyone at Airbnb actually knows what BLM stands for and what their true mission is. Look at what's happening in Seattle right now. It's really quite disheartening.
Very little respect left for this company.
@Michelle1709 I couldn't tell by your comment if you were in agreement with the career criminal sentiment or against it - thanks for clarifying...
Oh and thanks for highlighting the typo 😉
I probably should have stuck with my last post that said I was disengaging from this thread but the pile on that began yesterday after @Fred13 replied requires some redress. I eat, sleep and live Academia for a living when Im not helping guests, cleaning out spaces, rebuilding Bearpath Lodging or helping my Kids or Grand-kids and have for 26 years serving Profs and Students in a Liberal Arts University that is in the top schools in the nation and world.
When I say serve, I mean serve cause there are few people lower in the pecking order than I. That said, I proudly ply my trades to advance educational excellence and especially enjoy my interaction with our international student who are also serving our campus's needs in work study programs year round with me. I have observed first hand the noble efforts of my employer to propel disadvantaged students from around the world that have not had the same access to a grade A education pie that most of their classmates have. More than one have nearly killed themselves trying to achieve the same education and employment goals as their more educated, more affluent contenders for the gold rings offered the few at the end of 4 years of toil.
I find that I relate best, enjoy and communicate most with the international and students from US inner cities, I suspect because they are more like I am than their classmates that drive far nicer vehicles than our Professors and go to Switzwerland for spring break. I come from a tiny poor school that had very few resources in a rural area where trades and farming were norms not PHDS or MD's (actually we had one MD, Doc Hoke, he delivered 90% of the kids that went to my school). Madison had no museums or zoos, just antiques and cows. Almost nobody didnt have a job cause you would starve and freeze trying to live off welfare but very few earned 1/2 of what the people in the nice school districts in upstate NY earned.
If it hadn't been for our BOCES and other Vocational schools, most from here and a significant population of NY would have never had a chance to leave the family farm or escape poverty if they were one of the few that tried to live off a welfare check and free Cheese and Butter tubs. It has been Trades not college that have brought many of my classmates to the place where we could never have been accepted if we were not there to fix their toilets or repair the electrical outlet that supplies power to the NMR. None of us would ever be in the position to touch a million dollar piece of scientific equipment unless I was filling it with L2N which is a bit riskier than most PHD's want anything to do with.
Please don't be mistaken, I am not bitter at all about this experience, as I said when I started this diatribe, I am a proud and very employable and very employed professional Technician and skilled tradesman. If it hadn't been the fact that those in charge of half the worlds power and financial base weren't as helpless at cleaning up behind themselves or repairing their broken FTIR, Maldi ToV or Wobulator Fluctuator Indicator, me and 14 out of the 29 people in my 10th grade high school class would be milking cows today. Nothing wrong with milking cows but it pays pretty poorly and most of the family farms were bought by rich downstaters that work or attend school were I work so they might not have even had that to fall back on!!!!.
My PHD bosses wouldn't consider the trades me and my buddies ply for them for their kids, your kids, or the ones trapped in terrible school districts an none-employment zones in our inner cities or rural America. Only the best education and the finest job after will do and that starts with paying about $75,000 a year to them to start your education. It moves up 20K the 5th year and if you go on after that, the sky's the limit (100K a year or more), just keep borrowing or come from wealth. They have to be careful they dont find out that folks with that Bachelors and even Masters might not pay enough to pay their student loans from entry level Professional Positions. Its especially depressing when a Tenure track Prof with a PHD that may not actually get the job finds out the plumber who just unplugged his toilet is making more than he is!!!!
Does any of that sound like something we should try to convince the masses of young minds is their only answer or bust? I think not, that said, I don't know a single unemployed Electrician, Carpenter, Plumber or Electronics Technician (my primary), I cant say the same about too many college grads that are forced to live with their parents.
One lasts parting thought before I say toodles and head off to work and check out some noisemakers (Scientific equipment) If your septic tank is plugged, you likely wont ask how its going to be fixed and dont care so much how much its going to cost before you want to know how long its going to take to get schnits moving again in your house and you will pay anything to make that happen! So, after my long "Feelings" instead of facts and figures from college institutions that serve their own interests more than yours or mine, I wish everyone here an awesome day. Be well, JR
Dear @Melodie-And-John0 , I'm all for vo-tech and think we need more of it - yet another plank on Trump's platform that wasn't fulfilled.
But you missed the point of our response to Fred's post. He's willfully disregarding important historical facts about opportunity and the very obvious lack of equality thereof.
Respectfully @Ann72 , I think he highlighted opportunities that arent being offered to darker skinned Americans in high risk districts anymore than they are being promoted to light skinned ones in rural areas that offer nothing but one first choice, \
Go to college, get a great job, thats it, every other choice is for failures and individuals with disabilities, When my Daughters arrogant pompous PHD Guidance couselor tried to put the fear of god into Melodie and my heads that if my daughter didnt pick it up "She might end up as a plumber or worse" then followed it up with how "She was well on her way to ending up in a community or state college instead of a real school like SU", I should have knocked him out right there instead of taking his advice and trying to ride her like a bull to do better and go to college, she didnt get her degree and she isnt a plumber and shes had a tough time trying to find a pathway unsucsessfully now since the first 3 times college didnt work, thanks Mr Tofte, that was sound advice....
That said, Most dark skinned Americans in the places where children fail to thrive dont have 4 years to wait to see if they can make a go of college then get a job (Work study doesnt pay that well especially when you have to study to pass school), they might not make it through high school at all if they have no way to help pay the bills while they try to get a Regents Diploma and they cant even enter the Armed forces without that degree anymore. Mr Tofte's Vision of their #1 chance of attaining success is probably not going to be attainable for them. Tell them they need to hang on the edge and wait to live instead of just surviving and they will tell you to go fly a kite and probably not that nicely.
You tell me your all for more Vo-tech , Im telling you its not a first time option out of the high and mighty Guidance counselors mouth in schools across our country, Ive heard it with my own ears and seen it with my own eyes like when my Guidance counselor Mr Bikowski told me in 1976 much the same that Tofte told us decades later "College- Job". My daughters father failed at college just like his little girl, if it hadn't been opportunities like Military service and My brutal 10 year apprenticeship at a Television shop, they place I work wouldn't hire me to take out the garbage today.
I think the historical facts matter less than the youth of America hanging on by their fingernails, there are choices that pay people to learn, not just a pittance they cant survive on, a real paycheck and getting a real professional grade education, the military and your local trade union are the two places in every place in our nation where a person of any race, creed, color or other can earn a respectable living and not be judged on that which isnt what they were hired to do. This is empowering not just supporting the helpless hopeless feeling that nothing can change if college wont do it, nothing will.....
One of the saddest changes to our educational system, at least here in California, is the skyrocketing cost of community colleges. There are many kids who don't do well in high school for reasons that have nothing to do with their intellectual aptitude. Inexpensive community college is an investment in the minds and spirits of our people, certainly an important part of the infrastructure of a participatory democracy. Education is important even when it isn't directly tied to the current job market, the ability to learn new things is never going to be without value in a person's life. A plumber may find riches in the study of pre columbian history or astronomy or anthropology. The ability to write well, the ability to do critical analysis, to detect a logical fallacy, these are skills we all need in daily life. The next technology revolution will not make these skills obsolete.
I identified with this: didn't do particularly well at school for various reasons, but scraped through with enough qualifications to get onto a vocational course, which was free, which led to employment. After school I suddenly got motivated to learn and was able to take all kinds of courses, all of which were free. Up to maybe 10-20 years ago, evening classes in our area were free; now they're quite expensive.
I totally agree that learning, in so many different spheres, is important and life-enhancing and should be an ongoing process throughout our lives – and subsidised! I hate to think of education as some kind of commodity that's bought and sold 😞
@Sally221 , Sally, our community colleges are generally free to state residents in NY but often, young adults don't make it that far or fail when they do for many different reasons like @Patricia55 and yours truly experienced. The choice to either strive for that college degree or fail isn't enough for a variety of humans from socioeconomic backgrounds just as diverse. BOCES (Boards of Cooperative Educational Services ) was once our go to place for concurrent trades training combined with traditional High school basics, you could graduate HS and go to work the next day as a Mechanic, Plumber, electrician, Environmental Forestry Specialist and 10 other career paths. At night, those classrooms taught Adults the same courses or even more advanced levels. BOCES is still alive but its a shell of what it once was now that NY expects everyone to get a college degree period. It now is more for individuals with disabilities during the day and some basket weaving and computer courses at night for adults.
I think that learning your talking about is happening without classes for more humans that would never have been exposed to pre-Columbian history, reading, writing and rhetoric. These subjects and others were once only college taught areas, today even without being able to take those classes, whole universes of those interesting subjects are available at our fingertips 24/7/365. So much that we never could have gotten from the one bookshelf of encyclopedias some more affluent kids could afford, (as the child of an art teacher and and English teacher, we had bookcases full of reading material, more books than most of the kids in my class combined).
Times have changed and we must change with them, education is still a lifelong learning process, that hasnt changed, just how we get that done has. JR
I came across this TED conversation https://youtu.be/KCxbl5QgFZw which I thought might be useful - to all of us, but particularly to those who claim to be “not a racist”.
To summarise: we all have a bit more work to do! Onwards and upwards – I hope!
@Patricia55 , I watched the whole thing, it took three separate sessions to get through it all and while I thank you for sharing it, I must say it was painful to watch and probably not for reasons that one might think. My friends, neighbors and family don't deserve to try to carry the guilt to our graves for the sins of someone else's fathers ten generations ago when most of us didn't have a single descendant in the nation at that time or before. Guilt fixes nothing when you cannot prosecute the sinners who actually committed the crimes against humanity of Slavery Participant.
Besides, no amount of money or shaming will actually repair the damage slavery around the globe has done for longer than the USA has been the USA and still does across the planet where human ownership of many types it is still a way of life in the shadows. Living in the past means we probably will miss out on the millions indentured and failing due to things we could probably help them conquer if we weren't more concerned with blame throwing than fixing. Thats just a fact that holds everyone back from a better day today, respecting and protecting all humans lives is where we need to be for the sake of the living in respect of the dead, stay well, JR
My ancestors didn't, as far as I know, participate or profit by slavery but my family has definitely had all the advantages, both large (those GI benefits) & small ( the many daily indignities I have not suffered) of having white privilege bestowed on us. Guilt is actually a rather useless emotion, I personally feel it but it doesn't do a thing for the common good. What we can do is recognize the current entrenched inequalities and work toward changing them. The Black Lives Matter movement is working toward making sure that black lives are seen as just as precious and valuable as white lives are. Now. Today. The past is important as it got us to where we are but it isn't subject to change or improvement. It's the future that we are concerned with, right?
I have biases of my own, some I can see (I have far too much impatience with rural white folk stuck in poverty, my oldest calls me out on that frequently) but my discomfort is my problem. It's important to me to listen to what folks with a different experience have to say, that is why I'm here on this thread.
I don't understand why people stay on in areas beset by poverty when they can legally move to places with more opportunity. Mind you, I wish there were more and better options for them in the places they love- my state is going to run out of water & it's ridiculously expensive at the moment so this attitude is one of enlightened self interest. The thing that frightens me about those who live in these places is how much power they have over me politically, with our senate being so powerful, and how little they understand about how things are where I live. The coasts may have the cultural power but the actual political power, not so much.
I love living in a place with so many cultures bumping up against each other, sometimes there's conflict but more often there's richness. My kids grew up in schools where they were not the dominant majority, where no one had to be the representative of their particular culture. If someone was clever, mean, kind hearted or scatterbrained it didn't reflect on anyone but themselves. They don't have any particular expectations about how someone is going to act, based on color. I think that is a very good thing.
@Sally221 , interesting you should mention the "rural white folk stuck in poverty", I have said nearly the same about the inner city folks like those in Syracuse and Utica living in places where people are shooting at each other every other day and thought, why wouldn't they move out here where they have room to breath and a place to grow food and even hunt if they were hungry.
The fact is, "The Man" wants them trapped in the slums and projects, its easier to administer aid and helpless/ hopeless folks will vote for the folks that toss them scraps that arent fit for their own tables. The federal Government and States own more property than the Catholic Church yet they force the masses of folks that can't afford their own places to live where cockroaches and rats won't live and somehow they should be better off for the handouts and supplements. Somehow we are supposed to be proud of the new increased graduation rate in Syracuse Schools of nearly 65% thanks to the current administrations efforts (re-elect them, wahoo!).
Fact is Sally, they would be safer and better off out here with us poor rural white folks than where they are today. Thats true! Stay well, JR
How many small towns have unspoken sundown laws that make things dicey for a person of color who gets stuck there in the evening? How many landlords wouldn't rent to a person of color? How many teachers would shame a kid for having a "bizarre " hairstyle? It is too often dangerous to be the one African American in a sea of white faces. Would your neighbors be comfortable with a strange black person in their midst?
I personally would not feel comfortable in large swaths of our country, I look okay, being older & white but l'd be afraid of being targeted for my liberal bumper stickers. I have never felt targeted for being white in the bay area, uncomfortable as a woman, late at night, sometimes, but never, not once for being white and I used to get lost all the **bleep** time & needed to get help getting un- lost.
The kid who was shot jogging in a white neighborhood in the Georgia countryside? The man a few years ago dragged to death behind a car in rural Texas? I can see how it would feel safer not being the lone non white face/family in the neighborhood.
I'm not sure what the hand outs & supplements are,I am again reminding folks that most people living in poverty in the U.S. are white. People of color are not asking for hand outs they are asking for equal access to decent schools, medical care & justice. One of the few (very) well paying jobs for blue collar men is being a prison guard, it's a growth industry, we are the top incarcerators in the world, perhaps saving China, and we write laws that are designed to keep those businesses going by incarcerating folks of color - why else is possession of crack cocaine a top felony while powder coke is a slap on the wrist?( and that is just one example.)
I don't know anyone from any projects, I do know several folks whose parents grew up in West Oakland with no grocery stores for miles and a poorly designed freeway that tore right through their neighborhood cutting it off from the rest of town. (this happened when Reagan was governor). I know a Postal carrier/Blues musician, a couple of teachers and a finish carpenter/Sheetrock guy. The B.S. the last guy had to go through to get a loan to fix up his Grandmothers house-yikes! He had great credit, the house was paid off but needed a roof & some other work done but no major lender wanted his business. (last laugh, the house is now worth well north of a million bucks, his kid is at Morehouse going to be a Dr.) but he was dogged by being the wrong color and still in this day ,has to worry about his kid being shot down by a random cop in a panic.
Hi @Melodie & John, I must say, I didn't actually find the video particularly guilt-tripping, or shaming – to me, it seemed like IXK was just stating facts! (Saying that, it's possibly easier for me to listen to, from the other side of the pond. Sure a different set of UK-based facts would've made me feel queasy...)
I agree with @Sally221 that guilt isn't necessarily a useful emotion – especially if it leads to denial; much better for all people of goodwill to focus on what the problem is in the present and what we can do about it.
@Patricia55 , The Venn diagram of life contains far more circles than the two he was trying to force the population of the planet into "Rascist" or "Anti-rascist". The talk was long on problems and short on actionable solutions that Johnny (me) can do that I'm not already doing and to be honest, most of the people I know are trying hard to be good neighbors and citizens to other humans regardless of gender, race, color, ethnicity, religion and other choices that are protected by god and law.
Have no fear, I like @Sally221 have zero use for guilt although I have certainly made my share of mistakes that I have and shall atone for in ways that I hope will always be positive paying it forward. I Fix things, thats what I do, when I see something or someone broken I can mend, I'm on it. If we all did that, fixed the broken things around us, the world would soon be a better place for all. Stay well Patricia, JR