@Michael5794 Plenty of guests don't leave reviews, either.
Re instructions to strip the bed, etc. Each host has different rules regarding before check-out instructions. As I just host a private room in my home, I don't have any. Some just ask or expect that guests not leave personal messes, like garbage strewn around, dirty dishes, and such. Which respectful, mature guests wouldn't need to be told, anyway.
I think if a host has asks beyond that, they should mention those in the listing ad. My son-in-law travels a lot on business, isn't the kind of guy to leave a mess behind, but said he resents it when he's paid a hefty cleaning fee, and only, like you, finds instructions to strip the bed, start a load of wash, take the garbage out to dumpster, etc. He does it, but isn't happy about it. He's just one person, staying for a night or two- he doesn't create mounds of garbage, or dirty 6 towels. He's usually rushing to catch a flight, or attend a meeting. If he'd known ahead of time, he would have booked a listing without those requirements.