@Caroline231 I agree with Emiel, your post here makes no sense in light of the reviews. You both left each other glowing reviews- if this was a bad guest you wouldn't host again, why did you leave a written review that would mislead other hosts to think this was a great guest?
What is the point of "telling Airbnb" (not sure what you mean by that) that the guest caused damages but not telling other hosts in the review?
And you say in the review that Joel is actually Joelle, and female, but here you are referring to them as "he"?