@Chad373
A lot of hosts are arguably "prisoner" to Airbnb. It's the world's largest by orders of magnitude, and generates bookings rather ubiquitously.
Many have become dependent on Airbnb. They have a long history of high ratings, glowing reviews, etc. That credibility gives them a big advantage. In the past, Airbnb has been a great platform, with good support. There's no reason to go elsewhere.
But as Airbnb grows into a giant booking machine, it's increasingly attracting a different, broader range of guest which isn't always suitable to the accommodation being offered, and host support is also declining. It's not as if this is some unknown obscure secret.
So, many hosts who feel victimised by this "evolution" assume they can just sign up for another platform, such as VRBO, and somehow, it will magically all change. Well, it won't.
First, VRBO has far less market reach, and you can't expect the same volume of bookings as Airbnb.
Second, as a new listing with no history of reviews, you'll end up showing up in the last pages of listings on another platform. Better prepare to wait a while to receive any bookings, unless of course, you cut your prices in half, and then, you'll be attracting the same types of guest you're running from on Airbnb.
Third, if you keep your Airbnb listing, it will be booked up long before your VRBO listing, and therefore, VRBO will never stand a chance.
Fourth, VRBO host support isn't much better than Airbnb, nor are the guests it attracts. So, if you're leaving Airbnb for VRBO, then be aware that you'll have to suffer the same thing, but with fewer bookings. And VRBO is more expensive, in terms of comissions and hidden fees.
So, yes, it's very very difficult to leave Airbnb. Like being "captive" or "prisoner". And you can be sure that Airbnb is well aware of that.
Your best defence is simply to look past the rhetoric, and realise that Airbnb is just another booking platform. It generates bookings. Don't expect anything more than that, watch your own back, and use Airbnb for what it's best at: bookings. Don't be afraid to scare away "uncomfortable" or "unsuitable" bookings. There's another one in the queue to take its place. It's Airbnb's greatest strength. Use it.
it's your problem to avoid bad guests: scare them away, and inexplicable Airbnb interventions and the stress associated with it: just avoid Airbnb support.