@John5097 wrote:
even though she had a nose bleed and ruined pillow cases and sheets, and I told her not to worry about it, smoked outside, filled up trash bin with wine bottles, and I had to knock on the door an hour after check out time to get her out. Left rave review but 4 stars on the vanity mirror.
@John5097
Oh dear, this sounds like one of those guests that is not self aware at all. I have encountered a few of them. She dings you for a truly minor thing, but overlooks all of her own shortcomings as a guest (if I put bulbs in every socket in my house it would be lit up like a Christmas tree!).
OR, she was very well aware of those shortcomings and therefore expecting less than 5 stars from you and rated accordingly.
I had one guy stay a few years ago when I was still hosting short stays. The morning after he checked in, I asked if everything was okay and if he slept well. He said no, the room is noisy and you can hear the traffic. I apologised and reminded him that yes, indeed you can, which is why it is mentioned on the listing.
The he said the bed is too small. I responded that it was a standard double, as specified on the listing.
A while later, he complained that there were a lot of flies in the room. While it's not unusual for one or two to come in if you leave the windows open in the summer, a lot is strange. I asked if he had any kind of food in the room. He said no. I offered to spray the room, but he didn't want that, which is fair enough. I wondered if he was using some sort of scent that was attracting them but I didn't want to offend him.
Half way through the stay, his partner joined him to celebrate their anniversary. I left a bottle of champagne for them. They broke one of the flutes, told me, but didn't offer to pay for/replace it. Okay, no big deal. When they left, I found that the water carafe (part of a brand new set with matching glasses) had a huge chip in the rim. No idea how they did that.
Plus, there were indeed a lot of flies in the room. I cleaned the room (which was not left dirty) and washed the linens as per usual. The flies all vacated. So, there was DEFINITELY something scented that he was using that was attracting the flies. I've never seen a lot of flies in that room before nor since.
I was sure that I was going to get a 4 star review but he left me 5. I think two things saved me there. One was the bottle of champagne and the other was that I had tried to help him out with a problem with theatre tickets.
I'm not going to mention which nationality this guest was, but I find that guests from that particular country like to complain A LOT and about a lot of things (usually things mentioned on the listing). My standard response is to just remind them that it's mentioned on the listing or say, "Really, that's strange. No one else has ever mentioned that before. Mmm, interesting..." Seems to work most of the time and they usually leave 5 stars.