@Puneet17 Well, that's a good attitude. If you had just asked her in the first place if she would consider refunding more for any nights she was able to rebook, that would have been a better approach than just asking if she would refund.
What many guests don't realize is that hosts don't actually get paid for a booking until 24 hours after the check-in time. Until then, Airbnb holds the funds. So when guests ask for refunds, they are asking for money the host doesn't even have yet.
I still don't really understand why you thought it was a good idea to book a trip across Canada when the federal govt, and the health officials in every province have been begging people to stay put. To your credit, you did say you know that was selfish, but actions count, not words. It's precisely because people ignore the directives and continue to travel and gather that this pandemic is not only still with us, but is getting even worse in many areas. Please do your part to be responsible about this, urge your friends to as well, so we can all get back to normal life. There are younger and younger people, who were otherwise perfectly healthy, getting really sick and even dying from Covid now.