@Alice-and-Jeff0
Thank you so much for bringing up this discussion about how we handle the breaking or disregard of House Rules. I too have appreciated your post contributions. This comes at a particularly good time for me.
@Annette33
Thank you for sharing your thoughts/experiences. Besides not feeling like I could add anything, you stated it so well, and I have appreciated your other problem-solving posts that many times have also added a way of taking it in, responding, resolving in the future with a tip or two thrown in.
So I'd like to solicit your ideas on how you might handle an unspoken rule - No Stealing. I do have a long House Rules list, and I add more with checkin information, albeit more please do/don't directionals than b/w rules. And, I do believe it's guests making a decision to either disregard or honor rules, whether there are 2 or 20.
Stealing: I don't mean packing a towel into their suitcase on the way out kind of stealing (that to me is one of those business loss line-items we accept). I mean outright planned, profiteering, waiting for others to not be around, rummaging through, several things disappearing, asking you to buy more of your supplies because it's "run out", and asking for $$ reimbursements because another guests used their personal supply (of what I already supply).
Please understand, in order to get to this dilemma, I already went through days and multiple situations of "it's not worth it" and "I can't prove it - sucks to be me" smiles and have kept up my pleasant hosting. But I'm now at the point where this is just too obvious, blatent and their efforts are snowballing as I think bravery is setting in. Too many days left in the rez to continue doing nothing and there is no way I can babysit 24/7 till checkout. I'm not going to change my hosting because this is the first time in over 50 guests, many long stays, where this has happened. I feel confident that because of how accommodating and turnkey my home is, I'm able to enjoy the relocators, interns, grad students in rotations appreciating the temp home they need.
So...I'm really more interested in how to respond in actions or attitudes or approaches to what is obvious *to me*, my assistant that this guests is taking, and then sometimes requesting us to replace those items since I have offered to provide them for guests.
I've also already called AirBnB, and was completely floored by their response - how dare I accuse w/o proof and hold the attitude that everything that might further go missing is due to this guest, when I'm not there all the time and there are other guests. I just asked them for any help they have to offer hosts like me in this situation. I essentially got a scolding and informed that if I cancelled him, I would lose all the money the guests has already given me.
I'd really appreciate your thoughts as to how you would handle this - moving forward.
PS: The latest is he was found by my assistant having gone into my supply closet which is noted to be the one private area off limits (noted in the checkin instructions) and pulled out many of my tools stating that he was going to tune up his bike. If there is a known way to cancel, I'd appreciate hearing what avenue to take.
If you read all of this...thank you so much! 🙂