@Sandra558 , I 'm glad for you she is gone, and I'm sure you learned some valuable lesssons from this.
It sure is hard to show our boundaries as hosts when we worry so much about a review.
still,it would be great if you, or any other host out there who experiences problem guests, would write an honest review on such a guest, nothing over the top, just a few facts.. the way it ended up, this guest got glowing reviews from you instead, which is entirely misleading the next host.
also, you are only hurting yourself when you expressed your discontent in your response under her review: her review of you was sugarcoatingly sweet, that is what future guests will see on your page, not the lower stars she may have possibly left for cleanliness. You bringing in some stuff that nobody would know about if only you hadn't mentioned it, raises some eyebrows and makes future guests wonder.
Always keep in mind that host responses are not really for the benefit of the guest who has departed - she is gone, you'll never see her again. but a response under a review is primarily an opportunity to show yourself as a gracious host to the next guest. Best is to use it as such, and not for bickering with the departed guest.
Sorry if this isn't entirely supportive of you, but perhaps you will take it to heart and use it to your benefit for future hosting gigs and reviews. That is my wish for you.