Hi @Heather293 Sounds fine to me but you have to be careful not to let the emotion of the moment come into it - which is very hard to do I know! I find it's best to wait a week or so to let things settle before you write that review. You have 14 days to leave a review - he won't see yours before he writes one & visa versa. They won't be posted until you both have left a review or until the 14 days are up, if only one of you does. You also have the option of writing a reply to his review of you. At least I think this is still an option - some people have said that feature has disappeared, but I still have it.
Other hosts really appreciate it when a host outlines the stars given in their review, that alone is very telling without any need for further explanation - and hosts can always contact you & ask for the details before they accept this guest. But if you'd like a give a brief explanation with each star category, that's great too. For example: Cleanliness - 4 stars, communication 2 stars - stated there were 2 couples & a 5th guest, they were 6 men (if you're sure absolutely sure they weren't gay couples, because that's a possibility?), observance of House Rules - 2 - smoked on the property, did not observe quiet time & disturbed my neighbours, etc. End with something positive to say, if possible - like "better suited to a hotel" haha or "I wish X the best in his travels and hope that in his future homestays he will adhere to the standards that have made AirBnB such a successful platform for hosts and guests.” I saw that somewhere here & loved it, so saved it.
Prospective guests are able to search out the reviews you've given other guests and you want to come across as fair, not difficult. Not that you sound like you are difficult, not at all. You sound like a responsible, caring homeowner.
I think the security camera is a blessing & a bit of a curse. I monitor check in & comings & goings to make sure we have the same number there as were booked, but turn the volume off so I can't overhear conversations because ours is at the front door & overlooks the deck. In my case, I learned that it's just better not to see the guests dragging my white down duvets outside or roasting marshmallows on the fire table. The yelling at 2 am is pretty hard to overlook though - that disturbed your neighbours & is totally unacceptable.
Try & put these guests behind you & now on to the next - and the next ones will be stellar guests. There are far more good guests than bad ones, so try not to let this get you down or put you off. It can only get better. 🙂 Hope that helps & best of luck with your future bookings - Karen