Hi Julia -
We used to live in a rural village area here in Indonesia, but when our boys got older we moved into the city for better schooling. We decided to open our rural place for guests a few months ago. The area is 100% (not 99 or 99.9%, but 100%!) conservative Muslim. But they are very VERY nice people! they allow me to open the house to Christians and Buddhists ... as long as they are not "blatantly" religious. And we had a dog or two when we lived there, and that was (barely) tolerated, so we allow pets (depending on how big, how many, and perhaps on how considerate to the local feeling the pet owner "sounds" to us). And gay couples? I'd let them stay as well, if I felt based on the correspondence that they would refrain from opening antagonizing the local community. So, yes ... I "discriminate" in who I allow in my house based on my judgement of what is allowable by the community. The Airbnb policy would prevent me from making such judgements ... and I can be certain that eventually my neighbors would either close me down or burn me down.
Actually, I am sure that most potential guests are very considerate like you ... if there were local customs or constraints that did not suit your values or lifestyle, you would chose another place. But there are most certainly (unfortunately) people who are NOT so considerate and would come to my home, as my guest, only to make a point to my neighbors. And then they would depart, and I would be left holding the consequences for their statement.
And, in any case, I absolutely DO want to have some control over who walks in my front door.
Well, anyway, Airbnb told me of this policy today, and I have until tomorrow to understand it and either accept it fully, or else be delisted and all reservations cancelled.
Isn't that just a lovely way to present us with this new policy? 🙂
Best of luck.
Ken ***