Hello @Joanne907
Congratulations on your first booking and I remember how nerve racking that was especially as I hadn't realised that my listing was set to Instant Booking so received a trip request for the next day!
I've changed this since and am now only with a request to book but to answer some of your questions:
Payment - we are generally paid 24 hours after our guest arrives and the amount is sent by Airbnb so all payment transactions are handled by Airbnb. Having said this, as a newbie, that first payment may very well take longer - up to a month. Hope all your bank details etc are entered? So the send or request money option is not used to obtain payment for the reservation. (Look that up though for future use maybe😉)
From the information you have given, I can see that you have chosen to split the Airbnb commission between you (3% + VAT) and the guest (around 14% + VAT)
The guest will have been sent the complete breakdown of what it costs them to stay - your nightly fee minus any promotion, cleaning fee if you have one, taxes and commissions and any other add ons.
However, I would send a message to the guest via the Airbnb inbox (always) and send them a nice thank you for their reservation and mention that the price you indicated was without any of the Airbnb fees (only Airbnb calculate those) but with the Early Discount and that you hope that they are happy to proceed and if not they are free to cancel within 48 hours or whatever, no harm done. You don't want this guest to come back and demand that they only pay what you said it would cost them once they have stayed. I don't want to seem paranoid but there are some people who take advantage of new hosts and I don't want that to happen to you. The full cost should definitely not come as a surprise to them and if it does, then it's a red flag!
Read up as much as you can on the Airbnb site and here on the CC so that you are as knowledgeable as possible on hosting and any questions just pop back here and ask away😊 if you haven't found your answer by using the search option up at the top of this page.
All the best
Joëlle