As a new host (May) I am so glad I was not forced to use Instant Book! I certainly hope Airbnb staff is reading all these frustrated threads. As a new host, I read all the many ways Airbnb suggest you protect yourself - and one of them is to make sure you feel comfortable with the guest by way of communication and reviews.
To not have a choice about whether or not to allow a particular guest into your HOME. Ridiculous!
And there are many reasons why one might want to decline a guest. Just this morning I was involved in a lengthy exchange with a guest who had made an inquiry, due to some logistical things that needed to be worked out. Just as we had it all figured out, another request came in, which I was able to decline (and explained why) to allow the first inquiry to book. Had I had IB turned on, the second guest would have been able to book, eliminating the ability for the first guest, who was a better match, to book.
TO AIRBNB - I WILL REMOVE MY LISTING IF IB BECOMES FORCED UPON ME.
Is is anyone listening?
Jude