Wow, @Michelle0! This thread is becoming a fascinating primer for how to host, as you've been hitting on just about every topic a host needs to know. This thread should go into the archives! 🙂
So here's one more. You've mentioned several times the reviews this person has received in the past. Here's something else I've learned in a relatively short period of time - How to read and interpret review language. Ready? 🙂
Great guests have great reviews. Hosts can't seem to say enough nice things - just gushing their praises! (Same is true for host reviews, as my daughter and son-in-law sadly found out).
On the other hand - if you're reading a string of somewhat flat, somewhat neutral, somewhat minimal reviews - watch out! Although this is by no means a universal truth, less than glowing reviews would send up a red flag to me.
I think it is human nature to want to share a positive experience. Delight is so easy to recognize. On the other hand, for various reasons, people are reluctant to bash another, choosing to be somewhat neutral instead.
I do think host requirements differ depending on circumstances. But when a guest is coming into your home or onto your property, as is true also for me, I think that warrants a standard that others with differing needs, might consider high.
I'm looking for a guest with friendly communication before they book, and one with reviews that exude host satisfaction. I have accepted many guests without reviews, but their communication with me beforehand clearly identified them as being the sort of guest for whom we would be a good match.
And most of my guests HAVEN'T wanted to become my best friend, and after an initial welcome, we haven't seen much of one another other than an occasional text. But there was a comforting sense of mutual respect, a sense that someone was enjoying their stay, and a sense that all was well.
I know we all have different standards, and different needs, and that these are what work for me. My point is, however, that we all need to identify what the best match is for our particular needs, and then learn to read between the lines.
You'll have to thank this guest, @Michelle0, for teaching you everything you need to know about hosting in one visit! Because so far we have covered:
Communication
House Rules
Check-in Procedures
Communicating with Airbnb
Reviews
How to Use Twitter
The Resolution Center
Setting And Meeting Expectations
Wow! That's a pretty extensive list! Should be required reading for all new hosts! 🙂
You've done a marvelous job, Michelle, navigating the system in pro-active ways. Thank you for sharing this adventure with us. I think we've all learned a few things as a result. I know I have!
Wishing you all the best as this adventure continues to unfold. And hopefully, the only problem here is a lack of understanding on the part of your guest as to the culture and expectations of Airbnb. Who knows, Michelle? Maybe you'll turn her into a "Superguest" before this story concludes!
Jude