@Pablo-and-Danette0 Your place looks nice. But ditch the air mattress option and lower your guest count to 6. You have proper beds for 6 people in 3 bedrooms, you have dining seating for 6, and living room seating for 6. Don't list for 8. And when you start throwing air mattresses down to cram in more people, it cheapens the whole ambiance of the listing and encourages partiers and sneaking in more guests. You are renting out a nice home, not running a flophouse.
Further to that remove this wording from your house rules-
"No rowdy parties. You may only host quaint family/friend gatherings at The Blue Star Cottage. Please be respectful of the neighbors. Quiet hours begin at 9pm. We are happy to host you and your guests!"
And replace it with "No unregistered guests not on the booking, or visitors, are allowed on the property. Failure to respect this may result in immediate eviction with no refund."
You can't expect that your definition of a "rowdy party" will be the guest's definition. And you should never talk about "your guests". It is your home- anyone who stays or visits is your guest, not your guest's guest. Saying "your group" is fine, because it means the group they booked and paid for.
What your wording will result in is at some point finding 30 people having a barbeque in your yard and house, parking their cars on the lawn or blocking your neighbor's driveway, traipsing in and out of the house, using up toilet paper, soap, and towels, plugging up the toilet, dogs running through your gardens, cigarette butts all over the yard.
"Oh, it's just our family and friends, it isn't a rowdy party".
And then half of them too drunk to drive home and staying at the house.