Wouldn't a guest not want a review saying they accidentally spilled candle wax? I guess I assumed, perhaps incorrectly?, that insurance claims (at least under a certain amount) are never communicated to a guest, so that as far as they know, small accidents rather than obvious malicious acts, would not reflect negatively on guests since all humans experience gravity and forgetfulness now and then. I do sincerely hope this is the case because I want guests who were doing their best to have positive feelings about AirBnB and our hosting too.
(For example, if a candle falls over left burning while asleep who escape in time for their lives or left and a home is destroyed that the damage is so large it merits investigation so insurance company would surely interview those who were involved before paying a substantial sum of any damage covered)
I agree with no candles as much as I enjoy genuine candlelight...even limiting guests to 'Experienced AirBnb Guests Only' we have no way of knowing if something in their life changed and they are not at their best...inebriated/under the influence etc. So I feel better for the sake of everyone's safety and our property using battery operated and electrically operating candles/string lights etc.
Fire pits are a bit of a conundrum for us, it's great to have a fire to sit by in winter...yet we live in the woods...when drugs like alcohol are involved a simple laugh and push can lead to someone getting a burn in a fire or worse...a neighborhood heavily forested like ours on fire...yet a fire pit is a perfect addition to a rural woodland stay...toastng marshmallows...I figure I may just remove firepit during Burn Ban Periods...i.e. most of summer and surprise guests with the option on any days we happen to get that have recently had heavy rains...everyone has different comfort levels with risk I guess. Important to me is that I provide multiple 5 gallon buckets of water to make it easy to put out fires and anything that were to escape from fire pit. We lived in a county that required nearby water sufficient to put out current fire so I got used to the bother.