Hello @Teresa2271 ,
You filed a claim and contacted the guest, who refused to pay. That’s it. Now, contact Airbnb, and they will handle it from here. If you’re in the right, Airbnb will either collect payment from the guest or compensate you directly.
Do not communicate with the guest any further, especially not over the phone. Keep all communication within Airbnb’s platform so everything is recorded, and Airbnb can access the messages.
It’s only money, and phone conversations can escalate in ways you don’t want. Also, hosts and guests sometimes make side deals (e.g., pay 50% and don’t write a review), but these agreements are often unreliable—once trust is broken, one party might not follow through.
This is my opinion, though I know others have communicated with guests, and it worked out for them. Lucky for them. Confrontation isn’t for everyone. Stick to the protocol. Contact Airbnb as soon as possible and let them take it from there.