Nosy Guest

Lori2951
Level 2
Tucson, AZ

Nosy Guest

I have a guest who will be here for a couple more weeks and whose behavior is now moving beyond nuisance level. It was clear early on that she was searching through my things, but she hadn't taken anything, so I just figured she was nosy and bored. 

 

Then it was clear she was entering my spaces, so I started locking my doors all the time. 

 

Early on it seemed as if she had drunk an adult beverage from the 2nd fridge, but I wasn't sure. She regularly rearranges things in the house. I will mention it and put things back. Today, she moved another adult beverage from the 2nd fridge to the main refrigerator. I told her that I was putting it back in the 2nd refrigerator because I keep it on hand for a friend. 

 

I'm somewhat new to hosting, but this behavior is so odd that I'm not really comfortable leaving my house with her in it.  Today I walked into the house and she was leaving the second guest room which a guest had recently checked out of. 

 

So, my question. Do you think these behaviors will escalate. Should I be concerned and look into ending her reservation early or should I just consider these nuisance behaviors and let things go at that. 

 

Thank you. 

 

Lori 

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Fred13
Level 10
Placencia, Belize

Thus far what she has shown is a lack of any sense of space and that she has nothing else to do than to act creepy. If it goes beyond annoying then is up to you whether you are ok with being even more uncomfortable in your own place.