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One of the things I love about hosting is creating special moments for my guests. Sometimes, it’s the little unexpected touch...
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Hello Fellow Hosts:
I’ve been hosting for Air BNB since 2017 and I can count my problematic guests one one hand but this takes the cake. This guest stayed with me twice. The first time for a few days at the end of June into the beginning of July and the second was from the end of July until she abruptly cancelled her reservation on August 4th (the reservations was until September 1).
Air BNB is a supplemental income as I have an unrelated full time job in the medical field which for the last 18 months has required me to work from home. This guest never expressed any concerns with me working from home and was hardly present during my work day. The guest would occasionally ask me questions about my job as the role I fulfill is one in which she is interested. I would give her general answers but NEVER discussed patients or health information.
On August 4th, I came back to the house from lunch and found the guest moving her things out. I asked if there was a problem and the guest told me that she
“can’t handle” me working from home. She claimed that the nature of my work exacerbated her mental health issues and she needed a place that was quieter.
I apologized and agreed that Air BNB refund her the remainder of her days. When I submitted her review, I only gave her 3 stars on communication and also pointed out in my review that she had cancelled the reservation and was given a full refund of her remaining days. The review was fact based and non disparaging. The guest gave me a 5-star review and even thanked me for my hospitality.
Earlier this week, I received a message from my manager stating that someone had called into the privacy office and accused me of disclosing protected health information. An offense that can mean immediate termination of my employment. The guest gave a false name but left her phone number so they investigating party could call her back.
After a little digging, I realized it was this guest. During my digging, I found the review the host for the reservation before mine left and it was scathing. I only wished the host had reviewed this guest sooner, because I would have never booked her.
I reported it to my manager who in-turn reported it to the powers that be. After an exhausting investigation, was reprimanded and cautioned to not do anything to this guest that could be construed as “retaliatory”. I contacted Air BNB and lodged a formal complaint against this guest. Other than flagging her profile.
I am pissed and I am reserving my next steps for a time when I can respond instead of react. What I really want is my refund back but I know that’s not going to happen. I also want to warn other hosts about this psycho. I’ve already given her a review and she responded to it. I’m tempted to respond to her response as other hosts can see it but I don’t want to look like I’m as crazy as she is.
Does anyone have any ideas?
Thanks for reading.
@Christine615 you are 100000% correct. This is someone who you do not engage further. Let her think her stunt got the OP in trouble (it did) and her need for revenge will be satisfied. No more interaction. Let crazy move on to something else.
I had my 4-star review of her removed and she retaliated by doing the same. 🙄 Like I care. I already have 2 to replace it and am working on more.
I don’t like being over a barrel like this especially when I did more than right by her. Giving her a refund of her days hurt me, but I did it anyway.
You’re right. No more engagement with Wack-a-doo and maybe she’ll move on.
Thanks for the support.
@Leiloni0 What is really strange is the previous reviews about this guest were positively glowing...and then, the one before you where clearly things went wrong.
I agree about taking the review down, someone who goes to the length of contacting your place of work in an attempt to destroy you professionally is dangerous, full stop. Erasing the review will hopefully end the link to her, help protect your job and this person will move on.
@Mark116 it just goes to show how terrified hosts are to leave an honest review. I sincerely doubt this guests mental health issues were brought on by the stay prior to the OPs.
She retaliated by taking her 5-star review of me down. 🙄
it’s too bad that I already have two to replace it and am working on my third. Lol