@Pedro1613 wrote:
Problem: after spending time educating these guests, they either retract their request
I think it's better that the guest retracts if they do not like the house rules. It means you have dodged a bullet. Those guests, if they did keep the booking are likely to break the rules and/or complain in the reviews.
As for guests who are still asking questions, that is pretty normal. They might be confused about the difference between an enquiry and a request (the system is set up so that the request to book is much more prominent than 'contact host') but often it's because they are fairly sure they want the listing and don't want to risk losing out. You can usually tell by the type of questions they ask.
With requests, I often remind the guest that Airbnb sets a time limit, so please could they respond to my questions by X time. It often helps.
Or, if the listing is clearly not suitable for the guest, I will first ask them to withdraw the request before I need to decline it. Again, this works a lot of the time.
But yes, it is a problem and it's very time consuming and there are guests who just don't respond within the 24 hours and you have to take a hit to your acceptance rate, but that's better than accepting guests you are not sure of. I've made this mistake in the past and it's come back to bite me.