@Cindy850
In some countries all airbnb accomodation needs to be registered and ID for all guests need to collected and communicated to the tourist authorities, just like in a hotel. If you are travelling to such country there is no way around the issue.
Some hosts outside such countries might also ask to show ID to make sure you match the booking, this should be mentioned in the listing description. They cannot ask for a copy without your consent.
If you are uncomfortable with a booking I suggest you contact airbnb for a cancellation.