@Shae39 the insect issue is troublesome as some guests have zero tolerance for seeing even one on a rural property. Logic dictates that those guests should not book a rural property in the height of summer, but here we are.
When I have seen others post about this, they have advised that you add something to your listing about the possibility of insects. We did as the name Firefly Cottage was not enough to alert prospective guests to the presence of insects on our rural, partially wooded property in one of the most damp parts of the US 🙂 Add that "insects and wildlife are present in this rural location" to your listings ASAP.
Instead of fully refunding or defending with someone else's review, I would offer a "courtesy" settlement of whatever you are comfortable with. Its best not to involve ABB as they will refund the guest especially if you don't mention bugs in your listing.
I would say:
"I am so sorry you feel this is not a good fit. Yes, we do have insects that get into the space in the summer at times. We do treat for them, but rural properties have these challenges. I am happy to offer you a courtesy refund of X despite my normal cancellation policy. I want all of my guests to be thrilled and if my space is not a fit for you, I am happy to make recommendations for other hosts in the area. I will send your refund to you via ABB immediately. Thank you!"
Notice I did not give the guest a choice in this verbiage. Just send her the refund and don't wait for her to agree.
I would call ABB and let them know that you refunded the guest and they are looking for new accommodation. That insects are part of rural life and not an indication of lack of cleanliness. I would also leave the following review:
"So and so was a good communicator/pleasant (whatever is nice and true to say) but not a fit for our rural property. We wish her the best."