@David9412 I’m not sure if you’re asking about renting an apt for long term with a lease or seeking a short-term rental just to get away from the everyday grind. So I’ll answer your question in 2 parts:
1. Long term apt rental—No, it’s not ok to ask for one month rent and a security deposit to VIEW a space. As a matter of fact, airbnb does not collect security deposits.
2. Short term rental—As a host, I would not allow viewing my property first under any circumstances. My photos are an accurate reflection of how my rental looks. Yes, I will entertain questions that are not obvious. Examples, are there any steps, can I charge my EV overnight, etc.
And nope, I’m not giving out my address to a stranger who has not booked my rental. That’s a no-no.