Boundaries

[Samantha1731]

How do you successfully establish boundaries with guests without coming off as rude. I have had numerous guest totally cross my boundaries and disrespect me due to me being overly nice and accommodating. Then when I try and establish boundaries they retaliate. 

[Mike-And-Jane0]

@Samantha1731 I think you have said what the problem is. You are 'overly nice and accommodating' which possibly doesn't then set the boundaries you expect. I fear this behaviour is confusing your guests.

[Samantha1731]

But that’s just the person I am, friendly and wanting to help but then it gets abused and it upsets me and you still want people to give you a good rating, so where do you draw the line haha

[Helen3]

You can be friendly and helpful while still having boundaries @Samantha1731 

As you show your guests around - reinforce in a friendly way any key house rules/boundaries that are important to you.